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Obese Children Need Sports, Not Bullying
By Brooke de Lench
Created 05/03/2010 - 16:03

  • Bullying
  • Emotional Injuries
  • Fighting Childhood Obesity
  • General Health & Safety
  • Health & Safety

Today has been a busy news day on the subject of obesity. Not only was the National Activity Plan [1]announced in Washington, D.C, as part of a new grassroots effort to combat America's alarming rates of adult and childhood obesity and decreasing levels of physical activity, but a new study [2]by researchers at the University of Michigan and reported in the June 2010 issue of the journal Pediatrics proves what many have suspected: that obese children are more likely to be victims of bullying than their non-overweight peers. 

The news got me thinking about a friend my sons had when they were in elementary school who I will call "Nat." Nat was an obese child in a family of three children. Nat and one of his brothers, Paul, were on my sons soccer team during the second and third grade seasons.  Sports came naturally to Paul, who was a very gifted athlete and he was very good to his younger brother, who struggled to keep up with the other boys, always encouraging him with words like "you will grow into sports."
Sadly, by about the fifth grade, Nat had all but given up on sports, even though we all tried mightily to keep him engaged in soccer, baseball and basketball.

Obese children: continued sports, end to bullying needed

It was a difficult situation. We all knew that the best thing for Nat was for him to be active in sports. Whenever Nat came to play with my sons he would spend lots of time running around and I could see that he had the potential to be as gifted as Paul and that he enjoyed himself. Yet, he told me that he did not like being part of a team. The story my sons were telling was a bit more detailed. "Nat, doesn't like to play team sports because he gets teased and bullied: kids have nicknames for him that hurt his feelings."

In middle school, Nat was given a chance to wrestle. The coach had encouraged Nat to give it a try,, telling himt that, if he toned up, he could use his weight to his advantage.  Still,  kids taunted and bullied Nat.

The new Pediatrics study confirms what I always knew: boys, especially boys who are obese, are bullied more often than average weight children.

The message: obese children need sports, not bullying.  It is up to every adult involved in youth sports to stop bullying in sports [3].

Brooke de Lench is the Author of: Home Team Advantage: The Critical Role of Mothers in Youth Sports (Harper Collins) and founder of MomsTeam.You can contact Brooke at delench@momsteam.com [4]


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