A conversation between myself and my daughter’s fiancé regarding character (or lack thereof) and sports, possible endorsees for my book Becoming a True Champion – which certainly has a focus on character and integrity as a foundational principle, and the state of affairs with many elite and professional athletes today, prompted several questions. If an athlete, or any person for that matter, makes a poor character choice, a mistake (i.e. cheating, illicit drug use, etc.) are they destined to live out the rest of their life as an individual known for being short on character and integrity? Is it possible to rebuild the trust lost through a change in direction? If so, does this become a solid and respectable example for others, especially kids, earning back that previous loss of character? Basically, is there any redemption for such an individual?
To answer these questions one must reflect on what having and demonstrating good character and integrity means to them. In reference to this discussion, do they really mean unconditional perfection of choice or is there the possibility of recovery at some point?
I suppose that is part of what makes Josh Hamilton’s story and struggle from drug addiction, including alcohol and crack cocaine, back to prominent major league baseball star (hopefully all clean and sober) so intriguing and so full of hope for those watching from the outside. Touted as the #1 pick and talent in 1999, and held in the highest regard by most scouts, Josh was chosen first in the draft by the Tampa Bay Devil Rays. He had hit the big leagues and was on his way to the Tampa Bay franchise right out of high school, and with a $3.96 million dollar signing bonus. Looked at by many as a once-in-a-generation (maybe lifetime) type player, he was injured in a car accident in 2001 sidelining him from baseball and putting him on injured reserve. With an abundance of free time, and money to go with it, he began hanging with what many might refer to as the wrong crowd quickly succumbing to the pressures existing within such an environment. After failing several drug tests, and many trips to rehab, he was finally suspended from baseball for a year in March of 2004 and again in August of that same year after not showing up for a mandatory drug test during that same month. It was not until sometime in October of 2005 that he hit bottom and started his steady, but difficult, climb back to normalcy, and baseball prominence. (For a more complete version of his story I would recommend Albert Chen’s article The Super Natural at SI.com. It is a lengthy but good read that will provide you with more detail than what I present here, and prepare you to answer the questions I have posed and will pose in this article.)
With Major League Baseball’s recent scandalous past (accusations in Juiced by Jose Conseco, the Mitchell Report, A-Rod scandal, etc.), it certainly would be refreshing to see a player of this caliber (whose fall from grace demonstrates the probability of consequence through poor character choices) change the direction of their life, make their way back to the top and attempt to rebuild the character and integrity lost by making the right choices.
However, there are other perspectives. Some may say that any person with the enormous talent and opportunity that he had/has (and all the money, fame, and fortune that went with it), who makes the choice to hang with a seedy crowd, becoming an addict in the process, and possibly waste away an opportunity most will never see, is not deserving of any sympathy or noble status. That there are other individuals who have dealt with very difficult adversity and/or scaled what looked to be insurmountable barriers, that were not their choice, and become something more through sheer will and determination, all without turning to drugs. Jim Abott (the one-handed major league pitcher) is one example that comes to mind. Even Dustin Carter, the high school wrestler featured in this blog: Video Demonstration of a "True Champion", fits well as an example.
So where does a story like this fit in the big picture of things? Is Josh Hamilton someone we should admire for the courage it takes to face and tackle his own personal demons, something so many others try but fail to do? Does taking the proper steps, making the tough choices, and pulling oneself out of the gutter that drug addiction ultimately brings a person warrant the kind of respect normally reserved for individuals who tackle tough adversity without this burden of choice? If he continues to maintain his ascension to the pinnacle of baseball elitism, should he be placed on a pedestal as a positive example that kids can use as a guiding light? Or is he just another highly touted talent, a spoiled prodigy who had everything, and flushed it all away, at least, it seems, momentarily?
Josh Hamilton, someone to be idolized, victimized, villianized, or something entirely different? You decide. All comments welcome.
I Vote For Grace
The Josh Hamilton story is a great come back story. The local paper wrote a story about his battle with drug use. He now has the ability to minister to thousands who are currently on drugs and can't seem to get off and can show kids that even high paid sports professionals aren't immune to the temptations of life. We all need grace when we mess up regardless of how big or little our messes are.
I think the real hero in this story is his wife who never gave up on him, stuck it out through the toughest of times and prayed for his recovery for years. She is the example of comittment and perserverence. I would have her on my team any day.
Debbie Lantz
Author-"I Just Want To Play"
www.HigherRoadLeaders.com
debbie@HigherRoadLeaders.com
Great Points!!!
Those are all great points Debbie. Anyone else want to weigh in with a perspective?????
Kirk Mango
Becoming a True Champion
While I agree that it is
Ahhh, now were are getting somewhere.....
Wow, great! The points Taylor, (and Debbie) emphasize from my post are exactly what I am trying to encourage in a discussion here. There are certainly two completely different perspectives a person can take.
Keep the comments coming.
Note: It might be interesting for some to read the comments on the same post that I published at Bleacher Report (an amatuer sports writers website), http://bleacherreport.com/articles/43580-is-josh-hamilton-a-great-comeba.... It could add greatly to this discussion.
Kirk Mango
Becoming a True Champion
there is another question
How and when we might regain trust of such an athlete
Kirk asks if Josh Hamilton is someone we should admire for his turnaround after hitting rock bottom, or be discounted as another spoiled kid who wasted his talent and tremendous resources and betrayed everyone who trusted him. Should we place such players on pedestals or villify them as extremely bad examples? I think the answer must necessarily vary depending on the individual circumstances, and must be tempered by time and exactly what the person does to redeem himself/herself, how sincerely and with what dedication they act and how long they work to turn themselves around.Unfortunately we live in a media age where the momentary soundbite and news story highlight controversial opinions and demand quick judgments. But the public can't be forced into such decisions before it is ready in such cases.
I think it is wrong that sports organizations, in competing for the best players, offer ridiculous sums to untested young athletes. By itself this throws things way out of perspective for such kids. They haven't yet EARNED these sums; therefore it's all backwards. They are given the reward before they have earned it. I believe most honest people have a built-in "meter" which tells them they haven't really earned it, and even the best of them have a difficult time reconciling this inwardly. Nor have most yet attained the maturity to acknowledge that and handle it.
But this never should excuse behavior such as Josh's and reinstatement should never be immediate. After such a fall, only the athlete (with the help of his/her family and support group if fortunate enough to have such) has the power to come back. They must demonstrate the turnaround is real by working to rehabilitate and reinstate themselves. And they must do this for so long (probably for some years) and so hard - far harder than they ever worked at being an athlete -- by doing good deeds, exemplary behavior, AND getting themselves back in shape -- that eventually their outstanding good deeds will have overshadowed their original misdeeds, and done it so overwhelmingly that nobody has any doubt that they have changed, and redeemed themselves.
In such a way is the athlete's integrity restored, because he has made up for the damage he caused (both psychological, to others, and material, in terms of wasted money and resources), and made himself ready to resume his career, on a higher path. If he has gone this route, he will probably be ready inwardly to handle athletic success. At that point, we may safely use them as an example - but not before.
Daveda Lamont
Co-author, Becoming a True Champion
I have mixed feelings on
I have mixed feelings on Josh Hamilton. I'm a Reds fan so I saw his rise last season. It's certainly tremendous that he was able to come back. I did have issues with the amount of publicity he received for coming back from a drug addiction. I think it sends a dangerous message to kids.
However, I also admire Hamilton because he's owned his problems. He does not shy away from the comments or questions. He truly feels he has received a second chance in life. Many of today's athletes are prima donnas and don't realized how luckey they are. Hamilton hit rock bottom and knows he's fortunate.
From a baseball standpoint, I wasn't sad to see the Reds trade him last year. I just feel long term, his career is to up in the air to extend a big contract. He's done irreversable damage to his body that may shorten his career. No one knows.
Other than that, I'm happy for him and hope he continues to stay clean and hit line drives!
Yep!!
Some very good points.
Kirk Mango
Becoming a True Champion
josh hamilton will be
josh hamilton will be signing at the Barnes & Noble in South Arlington at The Parks Mall on October 22nd at 7pm for his book Beyond Belief.